Hopefully this helped a little bit. Every new set in our ward looks at him as fresh meat. I never give him shit for it. Well, the thing is he knows exactly how I feel and he has offered to give it all up. It's hard right now because he's on a general surgery rotation so his hours suck and I never see him.


She is instructed to have children within wedlock very soon, raise these children in a Mormon home, and devote hours each week to church activities plus Sabbath observance on Sunday. If you have children how will they be raised. This broke my heart. And some will do that. In a few months, he will begin working, and his first few years will be demanding what else is new. If they believe their religion, they will ultimately cause you pain and disappointment. I actually had one of my friends say to me, " why are you worried about what he is doing when you aren't there he spends hundreds of dollars on you when you are there who cares that he hasn't texted you". But I don't want to put any more demands on his time, which is why I thought maybe asking for quick phone call on his drive home might help. He want to wait at least one year before he makes any decision he want to take it slow. Really, I'm interested in this too.
It takes an incredible amount of self discipline to first find and then be able to maintain a balance between life and medicine. If she is open to questioning her faith, perhaps she can chase you down. Today, at my ward sacrament meeting, in the back section of the chapel where I was sitting, all the women except one were Mormon wives in interfaith families. I could never do it. Mormonism is not meant to be a casual part of a Mormon's life but it is meant to be the center. In addition to your religious leaders, there are counselors who specialize in interfaith couples. Even though we don't have kids I know the feeling of spending my Mrs Doctor life alone. It is fundamental that we focus foremost on developing ourselves as suitably strong men. You'll definitely need antidepressants.
Is your spouse willing to give you up on Sundays, and half your weeknights. I have no support system; you are so fortunate to have weekly dates with your DH. Do you have a few suggestions for talking points I may want to bring up from stuff directly on LDS. There will, in fact, still be churches besides our own. I wish you the best.