This cannot be overstated enough. Take care of your hands so that they can help you take care of her. The last thing you want to do is hurt or irritate the incredibly sensitive flesh inside your partner. Clean hands help prevent infections, which are the last thing you want your partner to get from your ministrations. Getting a girl in the mood is just as important as what you actually do to her. Fingering is a very intimate activity. You can use lube or your saliva, but why do that when you know you can make her wet and use her own juices to get the job done? My lady swears by it. Sometimes, length does matter.

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